So much of the way we communicate today is filled with pressure.
Pressure to appear a certain way, pressure to measure up. (To what? No one knows.) Pressure to seem to be something we’re not.
And we all give in at one point or another. Because let’s be real - it’s hard to resist the pull of pressure that tells us that conforming is the right choice if we want to belong.
But what if the most important person we can belong to is ourselves? What if the antidote to the pressure to look a certain way is to accept ourselves where we are, as we are, and then move intentionally through the distraction of comparison towards growth?
The pressure to measure up or appear a certain way can never deliver what we’re actually looking for. Connection. Knowing that we’re heard. Listening that transforms. Support that isn’t conditioned on our willingness to pretend that everything is OK all the time. This kind of acceptance doesn’t flow from pressure. It’s nurtured by the incremental choices we make to:
Pay attention instead of judge.
Share our thoughts instead of hold back.
Give our energy to the things we want to create and see grow.
So let’s resist the urge to pile on the pressure today. Instead, let’s communicate from a place of intentional, conscious choice.